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Finishing the Year with Peace, Not Pieces

Writer's picture: Aisha SpencerAisha Spencer



As the year draws to a close, many of us find ourselves reflecting on what has

passed—the highs, the lows, the wins, and the challenges. It’s easy to get caught up in

what didn’t go as planned or to feel overwhelmed by unfinished goals. But what if we

chose a different perspective? What if we decided to wrap up the year with peace

instead of carrying broken pieces of regret, disappointment, or stress into the next?

The first step to peace is acceptance. Life doesn’t always go the way we envision, and

that's okay. Instead of focusing on what didn’t happen, remind yourself of what did.

Accept the imperfections of the year as a natural part of life’s rhythm. This isn’t about

giving up; it’s about releasing control over the uncontrollable.



Ask yourself:


• What lessons can I take from this year’s challenges? For me, being ok with saying No

and not feeling bad about it.

• How can I turn those lessons into strength for the next year? For me, accepting that I

can’t be everything for everyone will make me a happier person.

Even in a difficult year, there are moments worth cherishing. Reflect on the small wins,

the meaningful connections, and the moments of joy, however fleeting they may have

been. Gratitude helps shift your focus from lack to abundance and creates a foundation

for peace.


Many of us set lofty goals at the start of the year, only to feel disheartened when we fall

short. Remember, progress is still progress. Celebrate the effort, not just the outcome.

Let go of the idea that you needed to “do it all” perfectly.


Clutter in your space often reflects clutter in your mind. Take time to clean up your

surroundings and let go of items that no longer serve you. Similarly, release grudges,

toxic thoughts, or relationships that weigh you down.

As the year ends, many of us scramble to finish tasks, meet deadlines, or attend social

obligations. But true peace comes when we prioritize our own well-being. Rest, nourish

your body, and engage in activities that bring you joy. One of the most fulfilling aspects

of life is the relationships we cultivate. End the year by reaching out to loved ones,

offering forgiveness, or simply spending time together. Connection reminds us of what

truly matters.



As I reflect on the year, I choose to focus on what brings peace. I will let go of regrets

and unmet expectations. I will celebrate the progress I have made and the person I am

becoming. Ending the year with peace means stepping into the new year with clarity,

hope, and strength. I choose peace over pieces—because I deserve to move forward

whole and grounded.

Here’s to a calm, fulfilling close to this year and a bright, intentional start to the next!


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